Showing posts with label Baby. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Baby. Show all posts

Sunday, July 02, 2017

How to get your toddler to accept the new baby

The bun is in the oven..... again. You are expecting number 2 and will soon be a mother of 2. Will you have enough space in your heart to love another child? How can you get  your toddler to accept the new baby? These are questions that often race through the thoughts of a mother when she is expecting her second child.

Quite often, I get these question from mothers "Will I love my second child as much as my first child?" I always tell them that the more the merrier. The more children you have, the more chance you will have of receiving unconditional love, for that is the kind of love that children give. Unconditional love.

The more children you have, the more love you have to go around your house. Eventually they always come back to me and say "I never knew I had it in me to love another." It happens all the time. As a mother, you have the capacity to love as many children as you have.

However, what about your toddler? Will your toddler accept the new baby?

The key to acceptance is involvement. Involve your toddler every step of the way. Here are some ways you can involve your toddler in welcoming the new baby to your house.

  • Bring your toddler along to doctor visits
  • Show your toddler scans of the baby and explain to them where the head, hands etc are
  • Let your toddler feel your bulging tummy and talk to baby
  • Say "our" baby and "your" new brother or sister whenever referring to the baby
  • If possible, bring toddler along to the hospital to take baby home
My toddler accepted her newborn baby brother with ease with her complete involvement every step of the way. We didn't have anyone to watch her while we were at hospital during the delivery, so we brought her along. She was there to see baby as soon as he was cleaned. She slept on a sleeping bag together with daddy in the hospital room while mummy was breastfeeding baby. All the nurses thought she was adorable, this little girl in pink who didn't mind sleeping on the sleeping bag. We had wanted a bigger room but it was unavailable so we had to make do with a sleeping bag and she thought it was rather fun to camp out. 

When we went home, our toddler went home along with us together with the newborn. We had our new extended family. Our toddler did not have to be separated from us during the process. She did not have to be taken care of by grandparents or aunts and wait anxiously at home for the newcomer to take over her position on the pedestal. She was part of it all. 

I can't repeat it often enough. The most important way to help your toddler accept the baby is to involve her every step of the way, whenever practical. Good luck and congratulations on your new extended family.


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Thursday, January 07, 2016

Cuddles Of Love - A Book About Baby Massage By Jashpreet Kaur

I'd like to share with expectant or new parents this book on baby massage which I was reading recently. It is called "Cuddles Of Love" by Jashpreet Kaur,  a Certified Infant Massage Instructor (CIMI) with the International Association of Infant Massage (IAIM) and Massage in Schools Instructor and International Trainer with the Massage in Schools Association (MISA).

My kids are preteens and teenagers now but with hindsight, I wish I had known more about baby massage when they were babies and toddlers. My babies and I would have had so much fun and benefit out of it.

This book is an eye-opener for me and would be a good read for a mother or father to be or as a gift to a couple who is expecting a baby. It talks about baby massage, bonding and loving touch including the whys, hows and benefits of baby massage. For example, I didn't know that certain oils should not be used when massaging baby or it is not a good practice to hand babies over to strangers at a spa, for example to do the massaging.

The main message of this book is "You can't spoil a child with too much love, one to one undivided attention and loving touch in the form of baby massage". Bonding with your baby in this manner helps baby and you relax and builds the foundation for a secure individual. You are the best toy your baby could ever have. Your baby needs you to cuddle, hold and love them. Its good for baby and good for you too!


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Wednesday, September 23, 2015

Cross Stitch Baby Birth Samplers

Cross Stitch Baby Samplers are a nice gift for your baby or for your friend's newborn. Here are a few Cross Stitch Baby Samplers for baby boys and baby girls in both stamped and counted cross stitch.


Janlynn Cross Stitch Kit, Sleepy Bunnies
Birth Announcement BUY NOW!

Cross Stitch Samplers

Cross Stitch Samplers can be used to record joyful moments in life such as the birth of a baby or a wedding. They are usually quite easy to sew yet attractive.

Someone new to cross stitch may perhaps opt for a birth announcement sampler by picking a counted cross stitch sampler kit rather than a stamped cross stitch set as it will be easier to keep the stitches even with counted cross stitch.

Whichever you choose, the results will be beautiful. They also make the perfect gift.

What is a Cross Stitch Sampler?

A cross stitch sampler usually includes alphabets, motifs, decorative borders and sometimes the date and name of person who produced it. It is an example of the skill of the person who produced the cross stitch.

Dimensions Counted Cross Stitch,
Baby Express Birth Record BUY NOW!

Dimensions Counted Cross Stitch Baby Express Birth Record
Baby Birth Records make lovely Cross Stitch Samplers. Not only that, they serve as a wonderful keepsake for the parents.

It is rather like having a scrapbook on sewn on canvas. They are great for decorating any baby nursery.

This Dimensions Counted Cross Stitch Baby Birth Record Sampler make the perfect decoration for a baby nursery.

Counted Cross Stitch or Stamped Cross Stitch?

Dimensions Baby Hugs Savannah
Birth Record Counted Cross Stitch Kit BUY NO
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In Counted Cross Stitch, the stitcher counts the threads according to a given diagram and follows the code in the pattern then sews them onto a countable weave fabric. It is easy to make the stitches even in size because you sew by code onto the special checquered cross stitch cloth also called the aida cloth.

In Stamped Cross Stitch, the stiticher stitches over the stamped patterns on a printed or stamped fabric. You will have to be more skillful in keeping the stitches even throughout.

Though it may appear as though stitching over a Stamped or Printed Pattern is easier than counting and following a pattern, it really is the other way around. Counting and sewing is easier and requires less skill in terms of how tightly or loosely you sew and in keeping the stitches uniform.


Stamped Cross Stitch vs Counted Cross Stitch

You need to be more skillful when sewing a Stamped Cross Stitch compared to Counted Cross Stitch.

Counted Cross Stitch Baby Samplers

This Birth Record Counted Cross Stitch Kit is a good example of a Counted Cross Stitch project.

Counted Cross Stitch is sewn on aida cloth which are material with checks. You count and sew the Cross Stitch by following a Cross Stitch Pattern.

Stamped Cross Stitch with Baby Animals Design



Stamped Cross Stitch


This above cross stitch kit is a good example of a stamped cross stitch design.

As I mentioned, you have to be skillful to make your cross stitch look even and beautiful like this. The positive thing about Stamped Cross Stitch is you can also stitch on quilted materials if you prefer.

Cross Stitch For Baby Girls
Cross Stitch for Baby Girls can use a princess theme, flower theme or anything else sweet and lovely.

Sweet Cross Stitch Sampler for Baby Girl Birth Record

Bucilla Princess Birth Record
Counted Cross Stitch Kit BUY NOW!


Baby Girl Birth Record Cross Stitch Sampler

If you know the sex of the baby at the time of stitching, you can specifically select counted cross stitch based on the sex of the baby.

This Baby Girl Cross Stitch Sampler is just right for announcing the birth of a girl, a lovely little princess girl.

Cross Stitch for Baby Boy

You can use a sports theme or zoo animals, or baby blocks theme for your Baby Boy Record Cross Stitch Sampler.

Adorable Counted Cross Stitch Baby Boy Birth Record


Cross Stitch Baby Boy Birth Sampler

Dimensions Needlecrafts Counted Cross Stitch,
Little Sports Birth Record BUY NOW!
For a baby boy birth announcement, you can stitch samplers with a sports, car or animal theme.

This Baby Boy Birth Announcement Cross Stitch Sampler has a sports theme. This cross stitch project will certainly brighten up baby's room. Not only that, it will continue to be a nice decoration for the room even when baby turns into a teenager because of its sports theme.

Decorate your baby nursery with cross stitch

You can make cross stitch posters, baby bibs, crib covers, cross stitch quilts etc to brighten up your baby nursery.

Counted Cross Stitch Vs Stamped Cross Stitch
Which Do You Prefer?

1. Counted Cross Stitch 
2. Stamped Cross Stitch


Cross Stitch Baby Bibs and Blankets - Cross Stitch need not only be on framed pictures

Cross Stitch Baby Bibs

You can make your cross stitch projects for babies into other things like blankets and baby bibs.

For example, this Stamped Cross Stitch Baby Bibs come with the bibs and a set of easy instructions.


The cross stitch baby samplers in the section below are easy and great for beginners

Cross Stitch Baby Samplers for Beginners - You do not have to make complicated baby samplers if you are a cross stitch newbie

Dimensions Needlecrafts Counted Cross Stitch
Owl Mini Birth Record BUY NOW!

EK Success Owl Mini Birth Record

Some Cross Stitch with Baby Patterns are absolutely lovely but they are also very complicated and for cross stitch veterans.

However, even simple and mini ones like this Mini Birth Record Cross Stitch Designlook just as great and make lovely keepsakes.

Keep It Simple!

There is a beauty in simplicity. Sometimes easy to sew Cross Stitch Kits turn out beautiful designs for your baby birth record.
Harrisville Designs Cross Stitch Sampler
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Easy Cross Stitch with Baby Design - Baby Sampler Cross Stitch Kits


Harrisville Designs Cross Stitch Sampler

If you want to sew a Cross Stitch with Baby Design to record and remember the birth of your precious one for keepsakes but you do not know how to cross stitch, its ok because most baby sampler designs comes in complete sets.

This is easy for a beginner since you don't have to hunt separately for the tapestry needles, wool or yarn and material yourself. Some of them even come with suggested designs and ready made frames. Some of these designs are very simple, even an 8 year old can sew them.

Happy Stitching!

Couldn't find what you were looking for? Search below for more cross stitch baby birth samplers.


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Tuesday, September 22, 2015

Baby Boy First Birthday Outfit

This post gives you lots of ideas on what to wear for baby boy on his first birthday, that important not to be missed milestone which must have baby looking his best.


Baby Boy's First Birthday Outfit Ideas

It's Baby's First Birthday. What shall he wear for this very important milestone? The first birthday is the moment many parents feel really proud of. Make sure you dress baby boy up in his finest outfit so he will shine for the many photos that you will be taking for keepsakes. This lens is all about baby boy's first birthday outfit.

If you are asking yourself "What shall my baby boy wear for his first birthday party?" Then this is the right place for you. You will find many ideas for baby's first birthday outfit here. Baby Boy's First Birthday clothing choices including matching props and accessories for baby are included in this lens on Baby Boy's First Birthday Outfit to make Baby's first birthday the most memorable event. Remember to take lots of pictures. He is only going to be one year old once.

Baby Boy First Birthday Outfit Can Be A Shortall Or A Longall

Mud Pie Prince Birthday Boy Longall

Here Is Another Rugged Looking Brown Owl Longall By Mud Pie


Mud Pie Baby Boys' Owl Overalls BUY NOW!

Mud Pie Has Smart Looking Longalls And Shortalls For Baby Boy

I Prefer Longall Because It Is Smarter And More Formal Looking For A Birthday Party However A Shortall May Be More Comfortable

I like this birthday boy first birthday longall from Mud Pie. It has a little owl with its arms outstretched. The
corduroy material makes it look really rugged, just like dad!

Baby Boy First Birthday T-Shirts - T-Shirts With First Birthday Design Can Be Used For First Birthday Because They Are Comfortable


Dirty Fingers, Happy 1st Birthday to Me, Baby T-shirt BUY NOW!

Dirty Fingers - Happy 1st Birthday to Me - Baby & Toddler T-shirt

A Cute T-Shirt With A Happy First Birthday On It Is Handy To Keep Around As An Extra Outfit For The Day

Get 100% cotton for baby boy's first birthday T-shirts as these are very comfy for baby.

TIP: Get baby a really smart looking birthday outfit and then have a Happy First Birthday T-Shirt at hand for baby to change into in case he soils his birthday outfit or you can change him into his birthday t-shirt if he gets too hot and uncomfortable in his first birthday outfit.

Formal Looking Baby Boy's First Birthday Outfit


Infants & Toddlers 5-pc Knickers Outfit Tuxedo Style Suspenders, Bowtie, Cap BUY NOW!

Infants & Toddlers 5-pc Knickers-length Pants Outfit Tuxedo Style with Velvet Suspenders, Bowtie, Newsboy Cap

Unlike A Baby Girl's First Party Frock, I Find It Really Hard To Find A Formal Looking Baby Boy's Outfit

One very quick way for baby boy to look formal is to get him a cute baby tuxedo, smart suit or other suits made of baby friendly 100% cotton material. Depending on your baby and how active he is, you can get a full 5 piece one like this one or get a bodysuit with a tuxedo design on it.

All-in-one faux tuxedo bodysuit.

A full piece baby tuxedo is recommended for formal affairs like weddings.

However a bodysuit with a tuxedo print can easily turn baby from casual to formal without making baby too hot or uncomfortable. These are great for semi-formal occasions.

Baby Boy Can Look Formal And Smart On His Birthday With A Real Suit Or an all in one baby romper suit that makes him comfy yet smart as though dressed in a 3 piece outfit like this

Newborn Baby Boy Romper Rompers Tuxedo All-in-one Suit Bowtie Bodysuit Set BUY NOW!

This boy's all-in-one little gentleman suit has a v-neck sweater and bow tie attached to the romper.This faux suit looks smart yet it is comfortable

Why a faux tuxedo suit? I like the smart look for a formal party. However, sometimes smart also translates to uncomfortable. A faux suit with a tuxedo printed on it is a clever way to let baby look smart and yet still feel comfortable. If you like, you can keep this as a second suit for when baby gets tired or dirties his real smart suit.

A Cute Bib Can Do Wonders To An Outfit. You Can Even Add A Bib To A Plain Outfit And Reuse The Birthday Outfit After The Party

TIP: Instead of a smart babysuit, you can dress baby up in an all white or all black babysuit or romper, then add a cute babybib

Adding A Smart Baby Bib To A Plain Baby Romper Or Bodysuit For Baby Allows You To Reuse Baby's First Birthday Outfit


Black Bib and Tuxedo Vest BUY NOW!

Baby Boy First Birthday Bibs - You Can Get A Two In One Baby Outfit With Bib Or Dress Baby Up With Special First Birthday Bibs For His First Birthday

One way of dressing baby up quickly is to have a first birthday baby bib handy. In fact you can have several in hand. A cute first birthday boy bib is like an accessory that will instantly turn baby boy's outfit from plain to cute or smart or whatever your choice of bib may be. You could also get a matching babysuit and bib.

You Can Use Smart Hats Like The Baby Fedora Hat To Make Baby Boy's Outfit Look More Formal

Party Hats or Boy's Cap For Baby's First Birthday Is Another Way To Accesorize Baby's Birthday Outfit - Get Cute Party Hats That Are Good For Keepsakes Photos.

Baby Boy's First Birthday One Piece Long Sleeve Suit Is Very Comfortable For An Active Baby Boy

Here's one very cool looking one, from the front and even cooler from the back!


I Like The Back View. It's Adorable And Certainly A Rugged Butt!

RuggedButts® Infant / Toddler Boys Blue BUY NOW!

TIP: Match baby boy's comfortable onesie or one piece bodysuit with a smart baby hat like the cute fedora hat and other smart caps for a quick makeover to baby's outfit for his first birthday.

The baby boy's first birthday one piece suit featured above is a hot seller. If you find that the item has been temporarily sold out, you can still check out other cute outfits for boys from Rugged Butts. They have really great looking clothing for little birthday boys.

Layering Makes Your Boy's Outfit More Versatile

A Baby Boy Needs To Look Smart For His First Birthday Party - Baby Boy's 3-Piece Outfit Set Is Both Smart And Versatile

A 3-piece Suit Or Set For Birthday Boy Keeps Him Looking Smart And Warm


Nautica Infant Boys 3 Piece Dress Up Outfit Pants Shirt & Argyle Vest BUY NOW!

Casual, Smart or Sporty? Which Outfit Will Baby Boy Wear For His First Birthday

It Depends On What Type Of Birthday Party You Are Organizing For Your Boy.

A 3-piece Baby Boy's Clothing Set is versatile. They can turn casual or smart by putting on or taking off. This gives you more options and variety for baby boy's important first birthday party.

TIP: Layering baby's clothing allows you to keep baby warm or cool when the need arises.
Which Outfit Is Best?
Which Outfit Do You Prefer For Baby Boy's First Birthday?

1. Shortall
2. Longall
3. 3 Piece Set
4. T-Shirt Onesie
5. Smart Tuxedo
6. Faux Tuxedo
7. One Piece Long Sleeve Suit
8. Layered Outfit


Search Here For More Things You Need For Baby On His First Birthday Party Ever!


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