tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29911725.post7120053491574121999..comments2023-10-29T01:30:12.177+08:00Comments on Mothering Times: Mothering is really hard workMumsgatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08578910510946597934noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29911725.post-63295669699684589452007-06-03T13:21:00.000+08:002007-06-03T13:21:00.000+08:00You should point out those situations where the ma...You should point out those situations where the maid frees you of household chores so that you can spend quality time as a family to your hubby then. :)Mumsgatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08578910510946597934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29911725.post-64163110265159649332007-06-01T15:47:00.000+08:002007-06-01T15:47:00.000+08:00Kids are smart, they know who to choose. If you do...Kids are smart, they know who to choose. If you do ask your helper to do the work, I doubt your kids will be willing to let her attend to them.<BR/><BR/>Though I have a lived in maid for almost 2 years and she has been quite a part of WH's life, but both my kids still want mummy to do all the work including the dirty part.<BR/><BR/>Some days I'm lazy, I wanted to get the maid to do the job, but my kids just kick a big fuss and refuse to let the maid to attend to them. So I hardly get a chance to escape my motherly role of feeding, changing, bathing and washing smelling backside that includes pouring poo and cleaning the potty. (My hubby always scold me for under utilizing the maid and not train my kids to accept the maid's help) *sigh*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com